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February 24, 2019

I didn’t know it then but I had begun a new chapter of my life and it started with Abandonment. From that moment, I was catapulted into an abyss where it didn’t matter that I had a wonderful husband, two children, great friends… all I felt was abandoned.

September 30, 2018

She came back the next week a changed woman.  She said they played some and the son gave her a hard time about not being able to play like his dad. But playing ball made it easier for him to say he missed his dad. In fact it was the first time he had told her he missed...

June 19, 2018

When it’s time to understand a client’s world view, we must pay close attention to how they describe things. It’s not just what they do and the roles they play that matter, but how they think and feel about those nouns. Sure, they are a dancer, and it pays the bills, b...

March 8, 2018

I revisit childhood an awful lot in memory but I wouldn’t say I’m stuck on the past. Quite the reverse. It’s not somewhere I go to deliberately to avoid the present. Rather, positive involuntary memories are triggered by repetitive activities and I harness them for hap...

December 23, 2017

Many of the difficulties we experience at Christmas among family members stem from the high expectations we impose on ourselves and on others.

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