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October 13, 2018

I am not a sex therapist but I do ask my clients about their sex lives, which often surprises them. Why? Not because I am nosey but because it gives me a big clue to what is happening in their closest relationships.

April 7, 2018

We live in a society that keeps on teaching us gender as a binary system based on biology supposed to determine our identity and our place in that society. There is not only a clear widespread confusion between sex and gender but also a very toxic hierarchisation of ge...

July 30, 2017

Sometimes, the focus of care was on the survival of the patients or the comfort of those in palliative care. What I saw was missing in this care at times was the mention of sexual intimacy for these patients and their choice in their treatment, regarding future sexual...

May 19, 2017

As a sex therapist talking and educating in areas around sex for me is vital. In this piece, I wish to focus on a women's ability to orgasm. There was a time wh