The loss of a Mum or of a child has a rippling effect and it is always a family affair. Expressing what you feel and sharing it with the family is healing. You are not burdening them. They too feel sad and upset and human beings feel..
Sharing an experience can be an opportunity to throw ones self into the moment rather than delving into feelings that may be uncomfortable. We are obsessed with explanations and answers. Forget about it. Focus on what they are saying. Not why they are saying